09Oct

The themes of Road Not Taken

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There is a repeated theme in our upcoming game, Road Not Taken. The characters in our little northern town have all lived their lives according to the same plan: first you go to school, then you get a job, then you fall in love and finally you start a family.

But life doesn’t always work out that way.

I grew up expecting to live a very traditional Norman Rockwell-style life. We had a little house on a lovely winding road in rural Maine. I did well in school; checked all the official checkboxes. Then upon entering the real world, things fell apart.

On the job front, I’ve been through multiple careers. My “safe” job at a large stable employer — the sort of job many people dream about — well, that was an incredibly bad fit for me. I’ve joined sketchy start ups that failed. And some that succeeded. I’ve been fired for idly drawing pictures of planes inserted into bums. I’ve been hired at double the salary because (as I learned later) I wore the right type of hat to the interview.

I live in a tiny condo in a big city, not a house in the suburbs. There is no yard or golden retriever. A bit later in life than the movies would have had me believe, I did stumble upon an amazing love. Back on track!

Then we found out that we can’t have or adopt kids. It is complicated; all my various thoughts about this get tangled up with one another. I’ve now got a checkbox that will never be checked.

At this point, I feel pretty far off the golden path. And I’ve ended up with a lot of questions. Is it okay that I’m happy? Am I still a useful person? When I’m 87 years old with full blown dementia, who will sign my drooling shell into the retirement home?

Many of my friends are raising families. They are nesting in their perfect houses (with yards) and bonding over baby-induced sleep deprivation. Their conversations revolve almost exclusively around sleep schedules and potty training. It is like watching a whole different life veer away from me. I woke up one day and realized, “Hey, that really is not my future.”

A surprising number of people I know are in a similar place. Their current life is not quite the simple arc they imagined it would be as a kid. Real arcs buckle and twist. I hope we are all richer for it.

So, back to Road Not Taken. It’s a game that puts you in the shoes of a person who has fallen off the standard path. You live alone, outside the village, and every season a new storm arrives. The people of the village need you. There are tragedies and small delights. There are unexpected events and decisions.

You can try to live a perfect life.

Take care,
Danc.

6 Comments in 'The themes of Road Not Taken'

  • Alex Schearer
    October 9, 2013 at 1:55 pm

    Sounds interesting. Might enjoy this article also on the theme: http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/09/17/the-referendum/

  • Vivienne Callaghan
    October 10, 2013 at 2:47 am

    Danc…your brief comments of life for you thus far is succinct yet says so much. You give hope to folk with those words. Indeed, life’s arc is full of lumps, bumps and twists. Maybe that’s the challenge we are suppose to face and out of it come some amazing people that accomplish wonderful things. I am eagerly looking forward to the release of this game. I know many others like myself too are also chomping at the bit. On the ‘children’ comment, can I just say that … although you may not be able to check that box, I know you will be able to find a way to at least colour it in somehow in a way that will be fulfilling for children who are not fortunate to have ‘stable’ family life .. I have belief in you :_0) – Ok..enough mulch from me now…..!

  • Amy Jo Kim (@amyjokim)
    October 10, 2013 at 8:52 am

    Beatiful, heartfelt words – I can so relate. Thanks for sharing and making us feel less alone.

  • ggarima
    October 11, 2013 at 12:57 am

    Where can I find this game?

  • Sean Gubelman (@gubester)
    October 12, 2013 at 8:50 am

    Ship this game! Your vision is clear, honest and heartfelt– I love ART! Show us!! :D

  • ArtsyFrink
    October 20, 2013 at 1:21 pm

    Thanks for sharing such personal insight into the Road Not Taken’s theme. I have a few check boxes I know I’ll never be able to cross off my list as well. It’s wonderful so much heart and thought went into your game and I’m very much looking forward to playing it!



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